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Confessions of a Personal Trainer

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I'm a lonely wife's dream, and hubby's worst nightmare.

July 12 issue - In 30 years in the training business, I've probably had affairs with more than 40 married women. Most of them were in their 30s, married eight to 10 years, with kids, and their husbands weren't paying attention to them. They felt neglected. They didn't feel attractive. Their husbands had become preoccupied with work.

In the beginning, I was scared about having sex with my clients. I was a shy, overweight kid and didn't go to the prom, so I didn't have much confidence at first. Then I got this physique and I discovered that I had this ability to charm women, and I made up for lost time. When I was 17, I put my first ad in a small paper, saying I was looking for clients to train. I had just won Mr. Bodybuilding Teenage New York State, and in my ad I was looking lean and ripped. The first day a woman called me and said, "Do you really look like this?" She asked what my girlfriend thought of my being a trainer, which I thought was strange. (I now know that when a client starts asking what my girlfriend thinks of my training, she wants to know if I'm available.) She told me she was married, that her husband traveled a lot for work and was never home. She said she found that being so sedentary had made her put on some weight. The next day I went to her house. I'd spent a lot of my savings and gotten some help from my mom to buy a really nice dark blue warm-up suit and brand-new white Adidas sneakers so I would look like a professional trainer. When the woman opened the door, she was wearing a black negligee. I went home and told my mother and father, and they forbade me to go back. My parents canceled my ad and said, "This will probably be a problem the rest of your life."

It happens all the time now. The wives today feel they have just as much right, and drive, to have a playmate as their husbands do. It's natural to want to have sex with your trainer. Remember that training is very hands-on. I'm touching them, motivating them, encouraging them, listening to them, relieving their stress and channeling their energy in a more positive way. Just as their husbands used to do at the beginning of their marriage. I'm trained to get inside their heads and push the buttons that will motivate them. But I'm also in their heads in other ways. They connect with me emotionally. It's very important for a trainer to be a good listener.

I once had an interior-designer client who was very beautiful. Like every client, she started opening up about her life; women do the same thing with their hairdressers and trainers. "My husband isn't attentive to me, he used to be so passionate," she explained. It was her birthday and her husband had forgotten. I suggested we have lunch, and she said, "How about dinner?" And that's where I went wrong. For a couple of months after that, we would work out, go back to my place and have sex. I would whisper sexy thoughts to her when I was spotting her at the gym. And then it ended. We got caught by the husband. He wound up calling me up and crying like a baby, asking me to stay away from her.

I don't feel bad about having had affairs with married women, because they were feeling neglected and they just wanted to be loved. One woman said to me her husband had never looked into her eyes when they made love. He couldn't have been that smart, because women love the eye contact. I come from a very passionate, Italian family. When I make love to a woman, I like to have spontaneous sex. I like to do it in the elevator, on the beach, underneath the table in the restaurant. I like to make them feel young, mischievous, alive. If they can have a taste of it again, they can realize they haven't lost it.

I'm 47 now, and over the years I've learned to watch out. I realized I couldn't be sleeping with everyone's wife in town. Number one, you start sleeping with them and they want to stop paying.and I make $150 an hour. I was never paid for sex. I would never do it for that. Because for me it would ruin it. I like to make love to please someone. When they say, "I feel like a real woman again," it's the same thing as when I train them and they tell me how terrific they feel because they fit in clothes they haven't worn for 10 years. The high of training is the same high as making love. I've written a screenplay about it all, called "The Trainer." It's "Shampoo" for the 21st century.


Get in where you fit in.

No thanks, lady.  Keep your number.  I don't DO Ghetto.
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RE: Confessions of a Personal Trainer

just like men can feel neglected women can feel neglected too...
pay attention to your mate and make sure you are doing your job to keep them happy and secure and it'll be alot harder for a snake to get in their...

then again anybody who loves and respects their spouse regardless of the circumstance, will remain faithful and wont give in to temptation...


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Passion Wrote:
just like men can feel neglected women can feel neglected too...


DO NOT justify this behavior!!! This is the problem right here, justifying bad behavior. If you are married, yo do not cheat, male or female, period point blank!

I've had my opportunities with married women myself but there is no way I'll contribute personally to that madness. Let that be on some other guy's conscience. A woman who cheats on her man shows low moral character.

Oh yeah, and that personal trainer is dirty for having sex with married women.


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Damn, that guy is an asshole!!! Icon_arrow

Someone will kill himone day if he hasn't already stopped!


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THESE FUCKED UP LAWS WILL NOT CHANGE UNTIL WOMEN ARE IMPACTED NEGATIVELY!!


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Be the Dream Wrote:
People do not cheat because of being neglected or some other reason related to their partners.  They cheat because of lack of character.  It's really that simple.


Agreed...  Also, I think society has brainwashed us to think that women are naturally monogamous while men have to constantly struggle against their natural biological impulses to seek sex with other partners in order to remain faithful.   Maybe we need to accept the fact that women are just as driven to cheat as men.

If we accept it as a fact that men are driven to spread their seed as far and wide as possible then maybe we have to accept the fact that women are just as driven to collect as much different seed as possible as well.

We need to accept that monogamy is a deliberate choice and that it takes hard work to remain faithful and resist the temptations to cheat.   I think women have a harder time to resist the temptation to go astray because for generations they've been taught that they're naturally monogamous so they don't know how to deal with it.   Men, on the other hand, know it's normal to feel sexual attraction towards other women besides their wives/girlfriends so they can deal with it and make the deliberate choice to be monogamous.

After reading stuff like this I'm coming to the realization that there's nothing a man can do to prevent a woman to cheat if she decides to cheat.  Maybe I ought to remain a bachelor for life to avoid the humiliation of getting betrayed.    If my relationship with my current girlfriend fails then I'm definitely remaining single.

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The "traditional" concept of marriage is a bloated stinking carcass which has seen its day come and go.  All those romantic fantasies go right out the window as soon as the wedding ceremony is over.  It is axiomatic that tradition has no place or discussion in divorce court.  Now, marriage waits only for a merciful burial.

Given the female affinity for "starter marriages", "trading up" and "divorcing well", if you feel you absolutely MUST marry, (cough cough FOOL! cough), reality must acknowledged in the post modern marriage.  I submit that contemporary marriage be reconstructed to include the following;

Universal, comprehensive pre-nups
Universal DNA testing
Definite marriage contract term e.g. 5 years, 10 years, renewable at the discretion of both parties or terminating at the discretion of either party.


Get in where you fit in.

No thanks, lady.  Keep your number.  I don't DO Ghetto.
04-17-2007 07:21 PM
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RE: Confessions of a Personal Trainer

ok. OK. OKAY.

Charlesh,

I've (as a Brother to another) been trying to figure this out
since I've joined this site...

As you,

a GENIOUS,

or an EVIL GENIOUS?


Cause it's like your'e reading my mind sometimes.


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